Let's start with the end in mind. Did the decisions you made day take you a step closer to that goal or further away?
It is easier not to have a well defined target. When we make a decision we run the risk of being wrong. Like Mark Twain said "It is better to remain sin lent and thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt".
But what is a greater tragedy, to make mistakes in your life or to look back and realize you never lived it?
We are not just talking about who you want to be in twenty or thirty years from now but who you want to be today? Life starts now.